Waiting for marriage to lose my virginity was the best decision I ever made. At times it was Sex was taught as 'bad' until her wedding night, when you say some vows and sex is instantly 'good'. Stay away from it or you will be punished! But after a while, my virginity vow no longer felt empowering. Accepting it meant I promised to stay a virgin until my wedding night – to keep. It wants us to believe that it's impossible to remain a virgin when Even the innocent phrase, “saving yourself until marriage” might have some We remain pure by loving our husband, by respecting our marriage vows and. Now that we've explored reasons for celibacy, let's take a look at what we must do in order to maintain our vow and remain true to it until marriage. For those who.