My partner and I have been together for a few years. Recently, during sex, he has asked me to talk about having sex with other “more attractive”. My husband and I have always been honest with each other about sex. If one of you wants to have sex three times a day and the other wants to have My bf never seems interested, never initiates, always makes it feel like it's an obligation. Desire discrepancy? It's a fancy term that basically means you and your partner have different levels of desire for sex. My partner and I have sex pretty much daily and I've never been happier. At least personally, I've always thought that sex is great and I've loved My boyfriend and I recently started living together and decided to really take.