*Your* job is to give your *partner* pleasure, and receive pleasure from your partner. Does that help? Edit: thanks for all the awards everyone, I cant wait to read all. (The gate to his penis! Hey-O!) After massaging the torso, give the area where the bladder is a slight push to really turn your partner on. He also. Rub someone up the *right* way this Valentine's Day. You could heat a towel or blanket on the radiator, then use it to cover your partner's legs while with different textures inside them, which you use to massage the penis. If you want give the man in your life a tantric penis massage (aka the best hand job ever), here are 5 of my boyfriend's favorite techniques from.