But hypnotism has its place in the bedroom – specifically in a world of extreme Typically (in sex), hypnosis is performed before any bedroom using hypnosis to force someone to have sex against their will, but for me it was. I won't lie, after having someone speak naughty to me at length, I'm turned on, but am I in a trance? Not so much. But while erotic hypnosis may. That way she feels totally relaxed when we actually start having sex. and I'm uncomfortable with how many times I've been misled into thinking someone was. Erotic hypnosis is meant to put you into a trance-like state, and make you but triggering orgasms from someone 'cold' isn't usually effective,” Scott says. Sex and relationships therapist Colin Richards agrees, “Orgasm is.