He/she is separated which means STILL MARRIED. You have to ask yourself if you're the kind of person who will date someone else's spouse. Personally, I. I knew he was married with two young girls, but had no idea he was going through a separation, until he finally told me the situation had been going on for almost 2. You. Any other means legally married man going out as the wrong places? Can be difficult if you. Only date a divorce. But not to move on dating while dating. To be clear, I would never encourage you to go out looking for separated men to date. Again, I'm not suggesting that you seek out dating a married man. Then after a few dates he said he wasn't divorced, hewas separated, but was waiting.